The good and the bad

Hi peeps

I have recently been diagnosed with breast cancer. Taking the excellent advice on this website I pretty much started by taking it one day at a time. This does indeed help. 

I thought to share the good and the bad and would love to hear anyone else's should they wish to share.

Today I had both a good and a bad moment. I received 2 letters in the post.

The first was from the hosp confirming my op date (my bad moment) cos my stomach dropped and I had that now familiar feeling of anxiousness take hold for a moment but shook it off cos I know it is needed. 

The good - my 2nd letter - as if... a tax rebate - boom  . Not half put a much needed smile on my face . Reckon a my treat family meal is in order.

Eeee it's the little things ain't it. 

Take care peeps 

Sandra x ️X

 

  • Hi Dizzle and Sandra your as bad as my bren she likes between 28 and 30 deg here's me having hot flushes in my summer shirt and she wants covering up she's cold.. Hope we don't have a hot summer. Its sneaking up quietly...... Love to you all....... Billy xxx 

  • Blimey Dizzel that's a fair travel for school hope Jamie is back home soon bless. 
     

    so glad you are have positive family experiences and cake.... get in eh x

  • Lol women eh. Mind I tend to run hot then cold then hot again lol.

    snow has just about gone here already... here just long enough to cause mayhem on the roads during busy morning period. 

    just done my Uswitch for my dual fuel... remember when we just stayed with the same supplier allll the time. Keeps the bills as low as possible though so gotta b done lol. 
     yup Billy we want the Goldilocks summer not too hot nd not too cold ;)

  • Just a quick update finally got wheeled hoists out, had to phone up to tell them to get them the workmen who fitted ceiling hoists are supposed to tell them. Finally managed to get my bed in with my Mrs hurrah so two rooms finally tidy and can move around in..... 

    Love to all.... Billy xxx 

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    Hi Billy,

    Glad to her that you've got the ceiling hoists sorted and the old ones uplifted. It's great to get back to normal after all the upheaval. I hope that you're finding the ceiling hoist a great help.

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx

  • Ah that's brill Billy - Bren will be so please to have you close by her again. ️

  • Morning peeps 

    bad:- none yayyy

    good:- saw my friend yesterday at shops ( she is the friend I mentioned who was diagnosed at the same time as her husband ( if you recall he died befor Christmas)). She has completed all her chemo and although she has lost so much weight she is positive and back to looking after her grandchildren. Lovely to see her more herself and grabbing control of her life back ️ 

  • The good- Dizzle is back and what a cutie you have there! 

    I am keeping my job!! Yep I cried when they said so relieved but also sad for those that didn’t get a job.

     

    The bad- It’s pouring down here but even that is good today! 

    Big hugs to you all x 

  • Hi beach, congratulations on keeping your job. Shows you do a good job and they want to keep you.. Yes lovely to see Dizzle on again and little Vinnie. Hope your keeping well and haven't any flooding nearby. Been raining here all morning but no flooding yet... 

    Billy xx 

  • Well done me lass. I just bet u are chuffed. Pleased t bits for you ️