Hi. I was diagnosed with breast cancer 2 years ago, I had surgery a few weeks later and it’s the most nervous I’ve ever been, but you’ll be absolutely fine, I was it’s just a long day waiting around xx

Good morning clarebear and glad u have dropped by :-)

ah brill 2 yrs post op. Would love to know how things are going 2 yrs on if u feel like sharing:-

all currently on this thread are indeed post op ( if anyone is reading nd newly diagnosed or waiting for results op etc..you too are welcome to join in ). Wonder [@clairebear]‍ if you have read my 1st post nd not clicked on the tab to toggle you to latest post :-) 

anywhose me dear thanks for posting would love you to join in with the rest of us on this post :-) x

Morning Sundial 

hey nothing to b sorry about. Some days we post good and bad but doesn’t mean some days there is not just good or...... just bad. All our feelings are real we need to b honest and open... it’s why we are all here.

Any chance of a little trip to a garden centre or some such for a gentle distraction... then a sit in at Costa for your little treat? 

Just know we are here nd sending hugs ️ X

Morning peeps 

bad:- none

good :- well... that was one invigorating walk t school nd back! Was like pushing in a rugby scrum pushing that pushchair lol. Breathing like Darth Vada by the time I got back in. Had t wash face cos was covered in grit. A truly blustery day - Love it :-) 

have as good a day as u can peeps x

Oh no poor you I'm bit emotional today first time I've spent birthday in hospital but celebrate tomorrow .has it just come on today' I have many good days then some days are truly taxing emotional stuff too much .loves and hugs 

Hi Sandra 123 

Yes no inhibitions once you going through tests ect I can talk about poor cancer quite openly can kill a conversation stone dead .last time doc said don't worry if you want break wind great 

Hi tigercub

Yes it’s just come on today but I guess it’s been building for a couple of days.  Struggled with anxiety for the first few weeks but that seems to have gone, I’m just so tired, battling a post op infection, difficult next step decision to make and hubby unwell and starting new meds. All just got a bit too much. I’m sure it will all sort itself out.

and poor you...birthday in hospital.  I’d want a double birthday when I get home. You deserve it.

Sundial

Hi no no one must beat themselves up .when the pip lady came to Do assessment on me she kept saying she understands what it's like to have chemo so I had ask her if she had it them said no so answer my question and I wouldn't wish it on anyone .every ones health issues are equally important .

Totally agree. Can I wish you a happy birthday and although not a day to celebrate today I do hope you can celebrate when home and up to it x

Hi Sundial

God yes everything comes at once and if hubby not well .I think bad days help you enjoy others I think things and new info sits in my head few days to be dealt with then I settle again usually .we have all been given huge curve ball and most of us got nothing to compare it to it's hard to think where we get strength from .hope your infection is getting better 

Hi Cornishpastie 

I will be relieved when sigmoidoscopy is done and they found nothing but it's already back in liver so would not be surprised but I'm on chemo again so there pulling there fingers out now .blood test forms say urgent it's not nice reading these things but there getting on with it rather than hanging about .goin g out timtomor even if I walk funny ha ha x

Oh bless you hun...so much to deal with. Best of luck today x

Oh bless you hun...so much to deal with. Best of luck today x