The good and the bad

Hi peeps

I have recently been diagnosed with breast cancer. Taking the excellent advice on this website I pretty much started by taking it one day at a time. This does indeed help. 

I thought to share the good and the bad and would love to hear anyone else's should they wish to share.

Today I had both a good and a bad moment. I received 2 letters in the post.

The first was from the hosp confirming my op date (my bad moment) cos my stomach dropped and I had that now familiar feeling of anxiousness take hold for a moment but shook it off cos I know it is needed. 

The good - my 2nd letter - as if... a tax rebate - boom  . Not half put a much needed smile on my face . Reckon a my treat family meal is in order.

Eeee it's the little things ain't it. 

Take care peeps 

Sandra x ️X

 

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  • Hi. I was diagnosed with breast cancer 2 years ago, I had surgery a few weeks later and it’s the most nervous I’ve ever been, but you’ll be absolutely fine, I was it’s just a long day waiting around xx

  • Good morning clarebear and glad u have dropped by :-)

    ah brill 2 yrs post op. Would love to know how things are going 2 yrs on if u feel like sharing:-

    all currently on this thread are indeed post op ( if anyone is reading nd newly diagnosed or waiting for results op etc..you too are welcome to join in ). Wonder [@clairebear]‍ if you have read my 1st post nd not clicked on the tab to toggle you to latest post :-) 

    anywhose me dear thanks for posting would love you to join in with the rest of us on this post :-) x

  • So glad the meeting went well today sundial. If it were me I would want to be sure the nodes are clear just for peace of mind. The benefit of having that info for me would be worth having a 2nd procedure. I'm interested to know what option you were/are more swayed towards. I know for you there are additional risks to surgery due to your diabetes and how much longer it can take you to heal.

  • Morning everyone

    Good

    I'm smiling, the sun has got his hat on, having a chill day.

    Bad

    Usual but nothing of great significance,

    Hope everyone has as good a day as they can.

    Sundial

  • Good morning. I'm just about to go out the front to paint the fencing....lets see how far I get before I get bored lol

  • Morning sundial and all other ladies

    not been on for a few days. Had wig fitting yesterday followed by an emotional breakdown at the Macmillan centre but it is a lovely wig and much better than my existing hair. Picking it up next week followed by a nice massage. 6 days into first chemo and first day I’ve felt entirely normal. I’ve come off lightly I think as still managed to pop into work and clean the house etc. Biopsy tomorrow to check for lymph node spread. Can’t say I’m optimistic as that hospital seems to love giving me bad news but will try to remain positive. Sun is out and meeting the little sis for lunch at Nando’s :-) hope everyone is ok xx

  • Good to get it all out dizzel. You are doing amazingly. Great to hear u are doing some nice things... u deserve it :-) mmmm a massage.... can almost feel it lol.my fave pastime a meet nd eat ... enjoy every min. Good luck for tomorrow going with a bit of a wait for the results. Fill as much of your time as u are with treats. High five to u me girl.. u r doing brill x

  • Morning peeps 

    very productive cornishpastie. Sprayed mine... big flattened cardboard box held at back by daughter while I sprayed front. Worked a treat nd no mess ( even daughter got away with no spay at all on her) literally took 10 mins :-)

    sun out here too Sundial. Just back in from school run nd lil one t Park- having first cup of the day.. nd relax :-)

    have as good a day as u can peeps x

  • Thank you. I do have my moments but don’t we all. Best to look at each day as a step closer to recovery xx

  • Hi Dizzle82 

    Good news for your wig .I've just started chemo again different treatment told probably lose hair or thin out quite bit got information on local wig shop so shall have just wait see.you day you pop into work and sound quite energetic compared me but I'm 61 and tired a lot .good luck for hospital news alwasa tense time appointments .and cleaning house you doing well .does your wig look very much like your hair

  • Hi,

    i managed to get a pretty good colour match to my normally dyed red hair but a lot longer which I’ve been striving to get. Does ur hospital not offer a service? I got mine through the Macmillan centre at the hospital. Had to pay 260 top up though as it’s human hair but worth it if it lasts. I do feel energetic today I must admit so making the most. I have no choice with an 8 year old little girl bless her  

  • Oh yes you sound lots younger than me I'm off work long term at present .yes been given details of wig shop and think I get help with voucher we shall see 

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