Get Your Life in Order

Hearing this statement from 4 specialists is a scary thing to hear.  The gastrointerologist telling me its 6-8 months of life; another a year, and others 1-2 years.    How do you plan?  Then the decision do to chemo or not.  Then pressure from friends and others advising alternative therapy.  What if you give up chemo and go alternative and it doesn't work?  Does it matter if you're terminal anyway? 

There is SO MUCH information out there and it seems it is all tests and trials for each individual.  "Keep positive"; that's the best cure for cancer is what I hear from most.  

I just finished my 8th chemo session and they'd like me to continue it for the rest of my life.  

Decisions need to be made, or perhaps, I just wake up and live my life on a daily basis.  I'm a theatre/events person and so used to living in project mode.  Not working right now - trying to figure it out. 

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  • Hi Dorby, 

    Coming to terms with the impact cancer has on your life can be tough but it's really good that you have some time to think about what you want to do next. Cancer affects your life physically, practically and emotionally so take as much time as you need and do not feel pressured in to making any decisions you are not comfortable with.

    In regards to treatment I have found some information on our website that might be of use to you. To find out more please click here.

    Staying strong and trying to have a positive outlook will help you cope with your situation better but it can be a struggle as many of our members know and hopefully they will be along soon to offer their support and advice and share their experiences with you.

    Wishing you all the best,

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

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  • Hi Dorby, 

    Coming to terms with the impact cancer has on your life can be tough but it's really good that you have some time to think about what you want to do next. Cancer affects your life physically, practically and emotionally so take as much time as you need and do not feel pressured in to making any decisions you are not comfortable with.

    In regards to treatment I have found some information on our website that might be of use to you. To find out more please click here.

    Staying strong and trying to have a positive outlook will help you cope with your situation better but it can be a struggle as many of our members know and hopefully they will be along soon to offer their support and advice and share their experiences with you.

    Wishing you all the best,

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

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