Hi Jayne,
I can share what hubby chose to put on his forms.  He had lung cancer as primary, secondary adrenal gland, bone cancer to back and sacrum and mets to brain.  He as an ex nurse had some medical awareness
His values and wishes
To stay at home as long as possible unless pain too extreme and cannot be managed at home.
Any signs of bedsores at home -cease home care.
I would prefer to have a better quality of live for a shorter timeframe.
Under binding refusal/s of particular health care
No cpr
No ventilation of life prolonged by artificial means and the medical staff determine that issue.
I do not want to be fed by tube
I may be offered food and fluids by mouth
I have just copied this from his forms and hope it may assist you in choices
We are in Oz.
Kathy xx
 

Hi Kathy 

That is similarto what I have drafted onto my for  which is currently in a handwritten draft format I have a adenpma carcinoma of the left lung which has spread to my bones, lymph nodes and cancer in lower spine

- I have worked in clinical reearch and the NHS for many years but have still interested in the wording which you husband has used wihich is more precise that what I have drafted

Thank you wiith love and prayers

Jayne

Hi Jayne,
Our son (26 yrs) and I were appointed substitute decision makers but at the end of the day as everything was documented we didn't have to make any decisions.
All the best,
I will hold you in my thoughts and prayers
Kathy x