Hi new to this but my husband has cancer back 2years ago he had large stomace Tumor removed we didn't know he had it he nearly died but he was fighter and pulled out through. Now its back I'm so frightened the things that go through my head .what he must be feeling I don't know.I want to cry but I try to stay strong for him idon't know what to say to him to help.I keep thinking why him like everyone who has or had cancer does.or why can't the bad people have it i know u shouldn't think like that .I think I should talk to someone but u just burst into tears well feel bit better just writing it down m
Hi Jesseann, Welcome to this group of lovely, caring people. I am sorry to read the reason you have joined. Does hubby talk much about how he is feeling and what's running through his mind? If he is communicating openly it makes it easier to respond. He has beaten this once, he can do it again. What treatment is he receiving and do you have a staging? Your brain must be churning like a roller coaster. Do you have support network? You will be amazed how many of your friends will offer help. I found normality is good if that makes sense. I do know that the cancer is the first you think off upon waking and on falling asleep, it does consume you if you let it. Just be there for him, talk, talk and talk some more (if he wants to) Let him know you are there for him. He is not walking this path alone and neither are you. Sending you a virtual hug, Kathy x
