Dear Jo,

Have only just read your post and want to give you a big hug friend.No need for apologies from you as you have been such a giver on here so our turn to listen.

Would also offer to rub your chest to make sure you've got it all off.LOL.

It's the classic the good news and the bad news syndrome.

We don't want some of each in this situation thank you, we just want good news.

So it's very understandable that you left hospital rather deflated.

That said it's time to pull yourself up again and takle the next stage.

Once you've had the scans and heard from the MDT I am sure you'll feel more positive as you will know the direction you will be taking.

and we will be here routing for you my friend, or even rooting.!!!!

Speak soon and anytime.

hugs

Annabel. xx

Hi Annabel,

Thank you for your lovely words and the offer to rub my chest to get it all off!

Having had today to 'get a grip' and realise that I need to keep things in perspective, I feel much calmer and just want to get on with the next phase of the journey!

I have a day off tomorrow and I'm going to give the specialist nurse a call and let her know I can get to hospital if any cancellations become available!

As I said to Lorraine and Hope, I function better with a plan in place! Maybe I'm a bit compulsive, but it would help to know whether we can book a holiday in October or whether I need to tell the head teacher to book some supply cover for me etc! Maybe 'organised' is a better description!

I hope your London visit went well and you had a lovely celebration of little Ava's first birthday! Will PM you soon.

Love and hugs, Jo xx

Morning Jo

It so helps when the workplace can be adaptive to your needs (I have been offered 6mths unpaid leave if I need it at anytime) and lovely that you have a sensible 'head' who reacts to your changing situation.  Keep hold of your 'treatable' status and.of course, anxiety is tobe expected (meltdowns too) but continuing love and support of family and friends (virtual buddies too) are alongside your journey (as is your ongoing support for people including myself on this forum).  Hope your medical team are able to keep you feeling comfortable with pain control  and I am happy to listen to any necessary 'offloading rant/ramble' to keep you company.

As you know our family situation is a little different so I rarely have a meltdown with the other half (though I wish he would release some of his feelings so I could offer comfort) but I too am lucky in having supportive children (we help each other), workmates (they have been the tissue providers on occasions) and a couple of really good mates (plus this unbelievable forum) to keep me 'on the level'.   We all know that there is nothing easy about dealing with illness but having others beside you helps with the coping mechanisms.  Take care and have a good day. hugs Jules x

Hi Jo,

I was so sorry to read that you are facing another op, however on a positive note sounds like you have a good consultant who will continue to operate to ensure the cancer continues to behave.  You have faced so much and remain so upbeat, you are truly inspirational.  Wishing you lots of luck and best wishes for your next treatment and please keep in touch.  Hope x

Oh Jo,

I am sorry to hear about your latest problem. I love what you said about Beechers Brook and it just proves to me me that you still have that wonderful sense of humour even when you have just had bad news. Good for you Jo for I'm sure it helps. You know your forum buddies are wishing you well and are here for you just as you have been here for us

Sending big hugs, Brian.

Morning Jo,

Sorry I hadn't seen this thread earlier.

Dissappointed, with you, that you have to have further unexpected surgery.

As you say we advocate one step at a time but when new items are pushed into the agenda it seems rather unfair.

So it's just a little hop over a hedge for you this time. Not anything too grand like Beeches brook. !!!! LOL.

Your head sounds a very thoughtful person like yourself.

I am glad she is there for you and obviously keeping an eye on you.

Well I hope you get the op soon (and obviously half term would be convenient) and that it is easy to recover from.

How's that lovely man of yours?

And how's your little pup who no doubt is no longer little but no doubt still puppyish.

Will be here for you whenever you need.

Love and hugs

Annabel. xx

Hi Jo,

Apologies, I've only just come across this thread. I was saddened to learn of your latest news and that you face another operation but as the others have said, you sound upbeat which goes a long way. I hope the operation goes as well as it can do and that you will pop on here when you can to let us know how you are doing. Glad to hear that your employers are supportive, however you sound like a saint for continuing with your work whilst you have other things on your mind but I suppose it's a good distraction too.

Hope to hear from you soon Jo,

Nicola xx

Hi Hope,

Thank you for your continued support and kind words. Things are beginning to move as I've received an appointment for my pre-op assessment - the usual routine of swabs for MRSA, bloods, height, weight, many questions etc etc!

I always seem to be able to answer 'No' to so many of the questions they ask  (do you have diabetes, heart disease, kidney problems? etc etc) and I'm always amused at the irony of how healthy I appear to be . . . on paper at least!

I hope you and your family are well? Presumably, you and both your boys are well into the new academic term now?

We've just one more week to go before half term - it's been a long 8 weeks, but as I mentioned in another post, my Head has really lightened my work load by relieving me of teaching. Though I really miss the children!

Take care and we'll chat soon,

Jo xx

Hi Brian,

Thank you for the big hugs! I've been enjoying your Amazing Quotes each day. I don't always comment though, as these days, with being back at work, I seem to spend less time on the forum! Thankfully, half term is just a week away, so I will endeavour to 'catch up' with everyone!

Wishing you and Mrs B a lovely weekend,

hugs to you both, Jo xx

Hi Annabel,

So lovely to see your post.

My lovely man is being as lovely as ever! We went out for lunch today (my treat, giving him a day off from the kitchen, haha! )

We worked out it was nearly a year since we'd been out for a meal - mainly due to my 'stoma anxieties' but I'm much more confident about it these days - good job, as I get to keep it for at least a few months more!

Paddy the pup is pretty big now. I really hope he's stopped growing as he's certainly big enough as he is! He's still a very bad traveller and gets car sick when we take him anywhere! Not ideal as our families live 90 miles away!

I hope you're ok and not overdoing things at the cottages!

I'll PM you soon, but in the meantime, I'm off for a canter to get some training in for this next hurdle!

Love and hugs to you, Jo xx

Hi Nicola,

No apology needed, it's lovely to hear from you. I had meant to respond on your thread. I see you've been back at work today! Hope it went well and didn't leave you too worn out or overwhelmed! That's how I remember feeling in the early days . . . tired and overwhelmed by the pace that others seemed to be working at while I was still taking baby steps!

You'll soon find your natural rhythm again, but as always, take it steady and listen to that body of yours!

I have found work a good distraction, but this latest round of health news has begun to fill my thoughts - good job half term is just a week away!

My pre-op assessment is next Friday, so I'm hoping they may have an idea of when the op will be (if I haven't heard before then.)

Once I get a date, I'm planning to be signed off from work for the week before so that I can ensure I'm germ and infection free - even though I'm not in the classroom these days, it's amazing how many children still love to share their coughs and sneezes with me! Haha!

So many of my colleagues have already succumbed to the tummy bugs and colds that are doing the rounds - thankfully, I seem to have missed out. Maybe I shouldn't have said that!

Have a good weekend, Nicola, and I'll follow your thread to see how things are going.

Hugs to you, Jo xx

Hi Jo,

Was glad to read that things are moving for you, good luck for next Friday pre-op assessment.  Me and the family are well, thanks for asking - been all over the country recently looking at Unis for youngest now!  I'm glad you have a supportive Head Teacher and that you have a significantly lightened workload. Hope you get some rest over half-term and remember all your forum buddies are here for you.  Take care.  Hope x

Hi Jo,

Was glad to read that things are moving for you, good luck for next Friday pre-op assessment.  Me and the family are well, thanks for asking - been all over the country recently looking at Unis for youngest now!  I'm glad you have a supportive Head Teacher and that you have a significantly lightened workload. Hope you get some rest over half-term and remember all your forum buddies are here for you.  Take care.  Hope x