My other half has just said he needs to book an appointment with the same Consultant I went to. 

After an operation in January, mine turned out to be T2N0M0 Bowel Cancer.  I am still recovering getting to grips with the stoma and waiting for a reversal.

He said he was going to wait until I was sorted- but ....

My gripe is that he has had the same 'symptoms' for well over a year, but now while I am still recovering these 'symptoms' are suddenly important.

Am I wrong to feel aggrieved?  I am worried that he has left things too long.  How am I going to cope with his care?   He is the cook in the family.

I am only just starting to be able to care for myself.

I'm always a glass half empty type of person.  Now there is nothing in it at all.

Sorry for being so self pitying.