Hello Hopecalm.  Sorry to hear what you are going through.  You say that your prognosis is very positive, which is great news.  I am not really sure if I am the right person to reassure you, because although I have terminal cancer, I have never felt envious of folks who DON'T have this monstrous illness.  I certainly miss that I can no longer do the things I used to do, such as going for a walk in the park, or gardening with my partner, or  simply going out for a meal with family and friends.  I also realise that all of the things that I wished to do will now never happen.  The best thing to do is to focus on your treatment, and  to look forward to the day when you are able to enjoy your life again.  Take care and I wish you all the best.    

Thank you.  Wise words

You are welcome, take care, xx

Hello Hopecalm,

Sorry to hear about how you feel. The same here, I am health conscious and always look after myself , I don’t smoke and drink but I have many health issues. First I was diagnosed  with osteoarthritis, next high blood pressure and on medication to control the cholesterol. Then 4 years ago had primary breast cancer and underwent lumpectomy, no chemo only a couple treatment of radiotherapy. I’m on maintenance taking Tamoxifen and finishes next January 2026. Passed the fourth mammogram all is cleared. Later this year will be my fifth mammogram and keep fingers and legs cross I pass this yearly mammogram. 

While my husband (he is 76 today) smoke since he was 17 years old. He is a chain smoker and have regular drinking session and go to the pub 3 - 4 x a week. He is fit and generally healthy. This is the part I get envied  of his lifestyle, happy-go-lucky no health problem. 

Anyway, let us think positive and don’t lose hope, always remember that there is always a light at the end of a tunnel. If you need someone to talk to, I am always here for you I am sending you best wishes and always take care of yourself. 

Good luck,

Inday-Tintin

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