Yeah I feel guilty that I'm walking away relatively unscathed. Early detection of grade 2 ductal carcinoma er 8/8 her2 -, clear margins and no node involvement. My breast looks no different after the lumpectomy and if it wasn't for the scar, you'd never know. Radiotherapy might alter my breast size, I've yet to start that treatment though. I have anastrozole to block my oestrogen and suffered no side effects where as others have a horrible time on it. Physically I look fine, mentally I feel like I'm sitting on the edge of a cliff. I'm pretty sure most of us think we've caused our cancer, probably because we need an excuse as to 'why us'. I hate when people say be positive, there doesn't seem like a lot to be positive about at times, it's a journey we have to take and get on with it the best we can. It's okay to feel scared and overwhelmed, we all do, it's a normal reaction so don't be hard on yourself. Good luck on your journey x

Thank you so much for taking the time to reply, I appreciate it. I am so happy there wwas no lymph node involvement for you. Your journey sounds very similar to mine and my lumpectomy is booked for 23rd September which seems a long time to wait. I am feeling exactly the same way, physcially nothing is wrong but mentally I'm staring at a black hole.x

Thank you so much for taking the time to reply, I appreciate it. I am so happy there wwas no lymph node involvement for you. Your journey sounds very similar to mine and my lumpectomy is booked for 23rd September which seems a long time to wait. I am feeling exactly the same way, physcially nothing is wrong but mentally I'm staring at a black hole.x

Yes the waits are awful but if they are still waiting for test results to come back that'll explain it. That's probably one of the worst things with all of this, the waiting and not knowing. Realistically with the amount of people getting breast cancer every year, I'm surprised the waiting isn't longer. We do panic and the first thought is get it out, get it out now ! We imagine it's running riot but it  really isn't. I felt like I was forever waiting weeks at a time but when I look back now, I'm like wow, that was dealt with very quickly from the mammogram recall to where I am now. Maybe when your results are back you could ask to be considered for any cancellations, but it'll probably fly by and be here before you know it. Wishing you yhe best x