Hi Marty666, so sorry to hear about your terrible news,  I have had breast cancer twice before 2012 then 2019 and thought I'd had preventative Mastectomy only to find a new lump in December last year and that its treatable but not curable as its metastatic this time!, I still can't get my head around it all,  had 2 counselling sessions with macmillan but not really helped I think it's going to be a time thing with regards to accepting the diagnosis,  I still want to wake up and it all be just a bad dream..hang in there you're not on your own with how you feel x

Hi, many thanks for your reply and to all others who have responded. I don't think I have come to terms with it but seem to have more better days then bad ones at this moment.I have stopped asking the question what have I done to deserve this, so I count that has progress.

The other thing that has started worrying me is the results of the full body scan which are due shortly.  Everytime I have an ache or pain now ,I start thinking the worse.  Its a wonder I haven't  completely lost it at this moment in time.

I wish you all the very best of luck 

Hi, many thanks for your reply and to all others who have responded. I don't think I have come to terms with it but seem to have more better days then bad ones at this moment.I have stopped asking the question what have I done to deserve this, so I count that has progress.

The other thing that has started worrying me is the results of the full body scan which are due shortly.  Everytime I have an ache or pain now ,I start thinking the worse.  Its a wonder I haven't  completely lost it at this moment in time.

I wish you all the very best of luck 

Best of luck to you too Marty, xx

Sending hope and prayers that the scan results are good news  x