Palliative treatment for primary peritoneal cancer

Hello I was diagnosed with primary peritoneal cancer 5 yrs ago sorry this may be a long post but my consultant suggested I share my experience with you.

When first diagnosed I went straight on the internet I gave myself 2yrs to live as information indicated this,  that was the last time I went on it, t frighten me so much , I met a lovely consultant who's words still ring in my ears there's always hope she said, I had 3 months of chemo then  a.full hysterectomy with removal of my omentom and then 3 more months of chemotherapy,  cancer had gone , 6mths later it was back , I restarted treatment and when this finnished I started a maintenance drug , this drug works better if you have brac.1 gene which I.dont have, it didn't work for me , it has worked for some , I've have had various chemotherapy treatments , caylex  was the worst one made the skin under my arms and breast red raw, my consultant  even tried to get me on a.trail unfortunately there  was non suitable for me it is a rare.cancer and only treatment is same as ovarian cancer,, they use the word palliative treatment don't be scared by this I was at first it doesn't mean you are terminal in my case they are still treating me, I  keep my self as healthy as possible  and have a possitive approach to treatments and life i smile.every morning as its another day im here sharing my love with my family .i've had great consultants who work with me we keep an eye on my ca 125 levels how I'm feeling and scans the longest I went with out treatment was.18 months, last may 2023 I was  very poorly due to a bowel blockage I had narrowing of the small bowel I lost a lot of weight it was weight I had to loose so don't stress if the steroids put weight on you it worked in my favour, my chemo was stopped ,I had a year from hell to be honest I was angry that I might die from something else when I fought so hard against the cancer,  I was admitted to hospital again in January I think I certainly have a guardian angel the consultant said he would give my a.chance and Try to remove the area of the narrowing of the bowel and I may have a stoma bag I had a resection instead and it's great to be.pain free , my ca125 markers have only grow at a slow pace I'm starting chemo again 28th Feb,  this is my 7th round of chemo 40 lines in total my consultant says I'm the topic of discussion at every consultant meeting yes I shouldn't be here but I am  so that word of hope at the very beginning has carried me a long way I live my life the best I can I don't give cancer the time of day it doesn't define who iam and as I say to the consultant I'm not a statistic or number I'm an individual . I wish you all well on your journey and have hope xx

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  • Hello Ticker, 

    Thank you so much for sharing your cancer journey and what an inspirational story it is! You are so right when you say you are not a statistic or a number but an individual. That word of hope at the very beginning from the lovely consultant seems to have given you a lot of strength and even though you have been through so much, you seem to be doing well and keeping your smile every day. It's incredible that your case is the topic of discussion at every consultant meeting - how amazing! 

    Best of luck for your next chemotherapy on the 28th of February - I hope it goes well. Do keep in touch with us if you don't mind on how your treatment goes as your story and attitude to life will warm the hearts of so many of our members who are going through a difficult time at the moment. 

    Best wishes, 

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator

  • I've only just joined this forum and to my utter surprise I found this lady who echoes  everything I've had over the last 5 years. Yesterday I started my 5th year of Chemotherapy. Paxitaxol and Carboplaten I've had to fight to get this as on the 10th January I was back in hospital with a blockage again in my bowel and my oncologist said no more treatment and I had a month at the most. Last year at Easter I had a blockage again in my bowel and was in hospital for nearly 4 weeks and started chemo again before I left. I finished chemo at the end of July and my cancer came back in the same time again at Christmas. My primary peritoneal ovarian cancer HGS stage 3 was found by accident 3 days before Christmas 2019 and it came back following year on Christmas day evening with a blocked bowel. re did chemo and it went away. The next Christmas I was terrified but it didn't appear again till the end of January. Next year it appeared again on Boxing day blocked bowel again. This year it was back my routine check up 10th January so I was admitted straight away as I was in a lot of pain and being very sick. Another gastric tube up my nose again. The bowel team came to visit me at 3.am after I'd got to the ward after a long wait in A&E till I got a bed at 11.30 on a ward. I'd just dropped off to sleep to have the bowel team wake me to say there was nothing they could do for me. I've had the bowel team tell me this each time I've been in with a blockage of the bowel. The cancer pinches the bowel and I've had IBS for at least 20 years and it's very sensitive to any stress and the cancer dots.  Each time I've had these blockages, I walk and walk as I've done for the IBS. I walk up and down the ward then the corridors and then through visiting time I go and walk round the outside of the hospital and neighbouring roads and I get my bowel to work again. I try to keep as fit as possible but as the lady said I try to take each day as it comes and smile and keep going. I'm not giving in to it. I also have the cold cap as I don't want to lose all my hair as I did first year. My hair has just got really nice again so after yesterday's first chemo treatment I will soon be shedding some hair again. My mental health feels very strained after a major de-bulking operation all through Covid lockdown and also the words of the oncologist a month ago that I was at the end of life. I'm very glad of this chance to beat it again. I'm a carer for my husband who has a lot of illness too many to mention and now has Dementia with aggression coming on. I try to see the joy in every day but it gets so hard. I'm not ready to roll over and give up. No way !

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  • I've only just joined this forum and to my utter surprise I found this lady who echoes  everything I've had over the last 5 years. Yesterday I started my 5th year of Chemotherapy. Paxitaxol and Carboplaten I've had to fight to get this as on the 10th January I was back in hospital with a blockage again in my bowel and my oncologist said no more treatment and I had a month at the most. Last year at Easter I had a blockage again in my bowel and was in hospital for nearly 4 weeks and started chemo again before I left. I finished chemo at the end of July and my cancer came back in the same time again at Christmas. My primary peritoneal ovarian cancer HGS stage 3 was found by accident 3 days before Christmas 2019 and it came back following year on Christmas day evening with a blocked bowel. re did chemo and it went away. The next Christmas I was terrified but it didn't appear again till the end of January. Next year it appeared again on Boxing day blocked bowel again. This year it was back my routine check up 10th January so I was admitted straight away as I was in a lot of pain and being very sick. Another gastric tube up my nose again. The bowel team came to visit me at 3.am after I'd got to the ward after a long wait in A&E till I got a bed at 11.30 on a ward. I'd just dropped off to sleep to have the bowel team wake me to say there was nothing they could do for me. I've had the bowel team tell me this each time I've been in with a blockage of the bowel. The cancer pinches the bowel and I've had IBS for at least 20 years and it's very sensitive to any stress and the cancer dots.  Each time I've had these blockages, I walk and walk as I've done for the IBS. I walk up and down the ward then the corridors and then through visiting time I go and walk round the outside of the hospital and neighbouring roads and I get my bowel to work again. I try to keep as fit as possible but as the lady said I try to take each day as it comes and smile and keep going. I'm not giving in to it. I also have the cold cap as I don't want to lose all my hair as I did first year. My hair has just got really nice again so after yesterday's first chemo treatment I will soon be shedding some hair again. My mental health feels very strained after a major de-bulking operation all through Covid lockdown and also the words of the oncologist a month ago that I was at the end of life. I'm very glad of this chance to beat it again. I'm a carer for my husband who has a lot of illness too many to mention and now has Dementia with aggression coming on. I try to see the joy in every day but it gets so hard. I'm not ready to roll over and give up. No way !

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