Hi, I’ve got stage 4 too, ER+ though. I also get very frustrated with friends and family! My mother in law is the worst… 'you’ve beaten it once you can do it again’ ! 

Yeah I’ve a MIL like that lol. I too get very frustrated to be fair! Sometimes they make you think you are faking it! 

I like to keep busy to take my mind off things, so people just think I’m fine and there’s nothing wrong. In reality I’m constantly in pain and battling with being petrified on a daily basis! My other half acts like some sort of sports coach and says things like ‘come on, head focussed, get in the game’ haha 

I like to keep busy to take my mind off things, so people just think I’m fine and there’s nothing wrong. In reality I’m constantly in pain and battling with being petrified on a daily basis! My other half acts like some sort of sports coach and says things like ‘come on, head focussed, get in the game’ haha 

Yup I’ve found it’s best to keep busy and out your head. Easier said than done sometimes though. 

Please make sure your getting some pain relief I’m assuming your having g the treatment given by the doctors