Hello Hlou32

How did you get on with your oncology appointment today? I hope that the Consultant was able to answer some of the questions that you have and offer some reassurance about your upcoming treatment. 

I can see that you've been chatting with forum members on another thread about cold caps but I wanted to share with you that Breast Cancer Now has an information booklet about breast cancer and hair loss which you may find helpful. 

In regards to wig fitting, I'd suggest speaking with your breast care nurse who will be able to signpost you to services that are available in your local area. There is also some information available online about wigs scarves and headwear that may be of help. 

Keep in touch Hlou32 and let us know how you're getting on. 

Best wishes, 
Jenn
Cancer Chat moderator 

Hi jenn, yeah I did get my questions answered today, I won't be using the cold cap as the advised against it with the chemo I'm having they said I can try it but after hearing about it I have decided against it. 

Thank you I will be looking into wigs as I will be starting my chemo next week, hearing it all to has just made it seem so really and made me very scared about to whole process seems so much and I don't know if I'm strong enough to do it, I know I have to do it but it all just seems to much, I have stage 3 triple negative cancer and because I'm only 32 they said they are guna chuck everything at it but I'm just scared I won't be able to take it. 

It's been a very hard day today. Think now I know my treatment is guna start in a week it all seems real now. 

Thanks for you advice and the links will definitely give them a read.

Best wishes 

Han-lou xx

Hello Han-lou

I'm glad to hear that you've had some of your questions answered. Today will undoubtedly feel like you've been hit with a lot of information and it's perfectly natural to feel overwhelmed and anxious. 

Just take things a day at a time. If a day feels like too much then go hour by hour. Yes, there will be difficult times over the coming weeks but the hospital team is there to support you and I'm hoping you have a whole army of family and friends who will likely surround you with the love and support you need. 

You will get through this. Just be kind to yourself along the way and know that we're here to support you as well. 

Best wishes, 
Jenn
Cancer Chat moderator 

Hello Han-lou

I'm glad to hear that you've had some of your questions answered. Today will undoubtedly feel like you've been hit with a lot of information and it's perfectly natural to feel overwhelmed and anxious. 

Just take things a day at a time. If a day feels like too much then go hour by hour. Yes, there will be difficult times over the coming weeks but the hospital team is there to support you and I'm hoping you have a whole army of family and friends who will likely surround you with the love and support you need. 

You will get through this. Just be kind to yourself along the way and know that we're here to support you as well. 

Best wishes, 
Jenn
Cancer Chat moderator