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Tootsweet74
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I was diagnosed with TNBC a few weeks ago. I'm having chemotherapy first and then surgery. I started my chemo last week, my second session is tomorrow. The first session of treatment was fine. No side effects or hair loss yet but I know its very early days. I have good days and bad days about the whole situation. I'm absolutely worried sick but I try to put on a brave face, keep busy and try to put it to the back of my mind but obviously it never goes away. At the moment I'm really struggling. I feel very tearful and anxious. I have a long way to go but I just want the treatment to do it's job so I can get rid of this vile disease. I know no one can tell me what's going to happen but I'm so scared. 
 

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  • Hello Tootsweet74

    I am sorry to hear that you're struggling so much at the moment. With everything that you're dealing with at the moment, it's understandable that you're feeling tearful, anxious, and scared. You're on a really physical and emotional rollercoaster at the moment and it's natural to have good days and bad days. Recognising that you have these peaks and troughs can help to get through the lower days. 

    Talking and reaching out for support to those around you is important. Have you spoken with you're breast care nurse to let her know how you're feeling? If not then please do get in touch with her. It may be that she's able to put you in touch with local services that can offer some support. 

    Hopefully some of our members who have been through this will post to share their experiences with you. In the meantime, you might want to have a look at the Someone Like Me service that's run by Breast Cancer NOW. Or you might want to get in touch with your local Maggie's centre or Penny Brohn to find some support. 

    Here at Cancer Research UK, we have a team of nurses that you can call to talk things through with if you would like to. They're available Monday to Friday 9 am to 5 pm on 0808 800 4040. I'm sure they will be happy to offer any information, advice, and support that they can. 

    This is undoubtedly a difficult time Tootsweet74. Just take things a day at a time and try not to look too far ahead as that will leave you feeling more anxious. If a day feels like too much, take things hour by hour. We're here to support you so keep in touch and let us know how you're doing. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator 

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  • Hello Tootsweet74

    I am sorry to hear that you're struggling so much at the moment. With everything that you're dealing with at the moment, it's understandable that you're feeling tearful, anxious, and scared. You're on a really physical and emotional rollercoaster at the moment and it's natural to have good days and bad days. Recognising that you have these peaks and troughs can help to get through the lower days. 

    Talking and reaching out for support to those around you is important. Have you spoken with you're breast care nurse to let her know how you're feeling? If not then please do get in touch with her. It may be that she's able to put you in touch with local services that can offer some support. 

    Hopefully some of our members who have been through this will post to share their experiences with you. In the meantime, you might want to have a look at the Someone Like Me service that's run by Breast Cancer NOW. Or you might want to get in touch with your local Maggie's centre or Penny Brohn to find some support. 

    Here at Cancer Research UK, we have a team of nurses that you can call to talk things through with if you would like to. They're available Monday to Friday 9 am to 5 pm on 0808 800 4040. I'm sure they will be happy to offer any information, advice, and support that they can. 

    This is undoubtedly a difficult time Tootsweet74. Just take things a day at a time and try not to look too far ahead as that will leave you feeling more anxious. If a day feels like too much, take things hour by hour. We're here to support you so keep in touch and let us know how you're doing. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator 

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