Bad day today

Hi all so sorry I'm gonna moan on here. Was diognosed last Oct I've had the lumpectomy and sentinel lymph node removed waited 4 weeks for results which weren't what I expected. Its spread to the lymph nodes so penciled in for surgery to remove them in February. I just feel so out of control of everything the waiting the plan for after surgery hasn't been told to me feel like I'm just a statistic not a person.do they let you be involved with treatment plans or do I just sit back and take whatever they offer. Sorry for this guys but today is a really  bad day in my head.

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  • I was in the same boat as you. I was devastated to learn it has spread into my lymph nodes.  Got an axillary clearance booked on 1st February  and although that's distressing enough my thoughts are focused on chemotherapy...I've had some dark thoughts and my anxiety is awful....you're not alone...sending you love

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  • I was in the same boat as you. I was devastated to learn it has spread into my lymph nodes.  Got an axillary clearance booked on 1st February  and although that's distressing enough my thoughts are focused on chemotherapy...I've had some dark thoughts and my anxiety is awful....you're not alone...sending you love

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