Bad day today

Hi all so sorry I'm gonna moan on here. Was diognosed last Oct I've had the lumpectomy and sentinel lymph node removed waited 4 weeks for results which weren't what I expected. Its spread to the lymph nodes so penciled in for surgery to remove them in February. I just feel so out of control of everything the waiting the plan for after surgery hasn't been told to me feel like I'm just a statistic not a person.do they let you be involved with treatment plans or do I just sit back and take whatever they offer. Sorry for this guys but today is a really  bad day in my head.

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  • You're allowed a wobble, so don't apologise for venting.

    You're well within your rights to question why you're getting treatment X, Y and Z. Having it explained makes more sense in our heads than just ploughing on, so don't hold back when it comes to questioning why they're gonna be doing what they are.

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  • You're allowed a wobble, so don't apologise for venting.

    You're well within your rights to question why you're getting treatment X, Y and Z. Having it explained makes more sense in our heads than just ploughing on, so don't hold back when it comes to questioning why they're gonna be doing what they are.

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