The waiting game

I'm so glad I found this forum and now know that waiting for results is difficult for everyone at times I think I'm just a negative person but it seems the waiting game is tough.  I had duct ecstasia around 8 years ago with no reoccurrence.  I recently decided I would get the lump checked behind my left nipple but wasn't concerned as my nipple has been inverted for 8 years and I fully expected to be told it's duct blockage again.  Came as a shock to find that's not likely. .  3 biopsies on lump and one in Lymph node.  Words used like worried and highly suspicious during consultation.  To be honest I'm in shock that awful sick feeling in your tummy and another ten days till results appointment.  I asked some direct questions but obviously she wouldn't commit till results are in but in her experience I will be having treatment. Keeping as busy as I can but an emotional wreck right now. Relieved to hear this is the norm for most of you awaiting results. 

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  • Hiya 

     

    I am new to the forum and I am so worried as well.

    I found a lump on my right breast a couple of days ago and i have an appointment with my gp next Thursday...the waiting game is the hardest ...I cannot stop crying and thinking the worst...it is really hard .

     

    I hope you get some great results .

  • You too it's a worrying  time for sure.  I feel exactly  the same.  My best day this week as so busy at work.  Distraction  seems to be the best thing right now. Hope your results are good too x

  • Hi Madgee and Elvira114, 

    So glad you are doing well bot of you . 

    Elvira114 I am glad your dcan was clear and you next appointment ison Tuesday.  It is great when things are happening quicker !!

    Thanks Madgee, I did see the pillows when I was reading about   Julia Bradbury so  I have ordered one yesterday from amazon . It should be here on Saturday. 

    I hope  you both have a lovely weekend. Sending hugs to both of you . Xxxxx

     

     

  • Hello ladies I will be thinking of you tomorrow V1234.  Hope you are ok I know it will be very scary but you will be ok and are getting rid of it tomorrow then lots of tlc and your recovery begins.  Loads of love and positive vibes winging your way.   ️️Xxxxx

     

    Hope you are having some better days Elvira I roll again tomorrow.  Loads of love to you ️️ Xxxxx

  • Thank you so much Madgee ,you are so kind.

    I just finished my work and going for my last scan for my lymph nodes. Then I can come back and relax ...it has been hard to sleep the last few days . It is scary thinking about what will happend tomorrow but as you said I will get rid of it tomorrow..

    I hope you are well and the treatment is going OK and you have not got too many side effects...

    You are such a kind person ,thank you so much for a your positive thoughts

    Elvira I hope you are well and coping with the treatment. Thinking of you

    Have a lovely afternoon both and I will message you to let you know how everything went.

    Stay strong ,sending all my love to both of you xxxx

  • Good luck hun its goi g to be OK

  • How are  you doing lovely

  • How are you Elvira  have you turned  a vorner and feeling well!?  When is yr next chemo? Xxxx

  • Hi Madgee,

     

    So good to hear form you and so lovely to think about me.

    I am OK, everything went well and going home later on today. I was terrified on Thursday but I am glad it's finished!!

    I do feel very tired and a bit tight in my tummy but I am hoping a good night sleep at home will do me  good .

    How are you my dear?have you had another chemo session?.are you feeling OK?

     

    Elvira114 how are you my lovely?all OK?

    I am sending lots of hugs to both of you .

     

  • On your way to recovery lovely. Its gone I know it will take a while to recover but you will have all this behind you soon.  No better place than your own bed.  Hope you can take it easy rest and enjoy Christmas. Do not over do it listen to yr body.  I did chem 2 on Thursday  and it kicked in quite quick so had a really tough night.  I'm m much better now my meds have kicked in but have spent last 2 days on sofa but just resting and listening  to my body.  Can't believe 2 done passing quicker than I thought. Loads of love to you remember rest keep on top of your meds and let everyone  look after you.  Bet you can't wait to see your little girl. 

  • Thank you so so much Madgee! Yes definitely I will need to take it easy and rest but the best medicine will be a big hug from my daughter, I missed her so much!!

     

    I am so happy the 2nd session has finished ! Well done my lovely!  You done it , you are so strong !!

    Have a good rest and enjoy your Saturday afternoon. 

    I will message you during the week to check how you are

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  • Thank you so so much Madgee! Yes definitely I will need to take it easy and rest but the best medicine will be a big hug from my daughter, I missed her so much!!

     

    I am so happy the 2nd session has finished ! Well done my lovely!  You done it , you are so strong !!

    Have a good rest and enjoy your Saturday afternoon. 

    I will message you during the week to check how you are

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