Hi this is the first time I've been on here and spoken about my beautiful mum, I lost my mum on boxing day 2020 to lung cancer ,I looked after her at home without much help which I found really hard but glad I did it ,she suffered so much in her last week or so and didn't have a peaceful death ,im just not coping with life now that she's gone ,I cant sleep everytime I close my eyes I see images of her struggling to breathe, and the picture of her being so thin she was all bones ,I often wonder if I could have done more for her maybe rang the district nurse sooner to help in her final days ,I miss her so much I don't know how long I can go on feeling this way ,everyone seems fed up of me being miserable and thinks I should be ok now but I'm truly not ,I'm so unhappy, to top it off my sister in law best friend died 11 weeks after mum so I had to deal with that aswell ,I just wish I could close my eyes an just sleep ,will I ever be normal again
