Diagnosed with Breast Cancer

Hi all, I hope you are well 

Up to now I have been a bit of a lurker on here just really stumbling across posts while frantically googling! I thought as soon as I get the results to tell me I had a Fibroadenoma I would come on and post a message to stop other people from going through the anxiety I have for the last few weeks. But instead I find myself posting after being told I have breast cancer instead :( 

To try and cut a long story short I’m 40 and 3 weeks ago I found a lump in my right breast, went to my GP who said she thought it was hormonal as I had had pain and was taking the fertility drug Clomid. She referred me to be on the safe side. I went to the breast clinic 3 days later and after being examined the DR there told me pretty much the same thing. It’s either a cyst or Fibroadenoma but to be on the safe side she sent me for a mammogram and ultrasound. On the ultrasound they seen it and did a biopsy. Yesterday I had a telephone consultation, I work in the same hospital so just went outside to my car to take the call telling everyone I would be back soon. When the consultant rang he explained that it was actually Cancer. I told him I was outside where he was so he told me to go in and see him. I basically have 2 lumps but only one was biopsied so I have to have another biopsy on Tuesday to determine treatment. If it’s only one that is cancer I will have a lumpectomy and then treatment. If they are both the same I will need to have maybe treatment first and then definitely a mastectomy. Positives are as far as they can tell it’s stage one, triple negative ductal something or other and there is no evidence that it has gone anywhere else. So I Thank God for that. 

 

Sorry for the long post, was just hoping to meet some people who are going through this and to be able to vent a little bit lol 

 

Hugs to all 

 

Sarah xxxx

  • aah that’s good that you’ve got lots of people around you for support and your definitely keeping the yourself occupied. Try and think of this week as a week off from it ... like whatever happens on Friday worry about on Friday .. honestly once I knew the plan I calmed such a lot it was crazy and now I’m trying to think .. I am about to get thrown into this world of hospitals and appointments and treatments etc so I’m going to try my very very best to enjoy this time with my husband before  all these plans start coming into action and our lives are turned upside down. I’m sure that is 100% gonna be easier said than done but I’m gonna try my very best. 

    You enjoy your day too and keep taking if you need to 

     

    xx

  • Yes I'm trying to just chill and keep myself occupied. I think the worst is not knowing what I am dealing with and what the plan is and how bad it is. I had a ct scan on friday so waiting for results for that.

    Everyone is being really supportive so I am trying to be positive.

    Sitting in the sun in the garden at the mo.

    Probably going to start the bbq soon! See if we can avoid burning it!

     

    Lu x

  • I’m just sitting in the garden too.. it’s beautiful today isn’t it!

    I think we are set for a few more nice days Aswell so that’s good. A little bit of sun definitely makes you feel a little bit calmer I think. I like to close my eyes and imagine I’m by the pool on holiday lol 

     

    Enjoy your BBQ xx 

  • Yes I try and do that, almost bought a paddling pool just to try and set the mood!

    BBQ was really nice. Had to come in from the garden now as its got really chilly! The kids actually got off their computers and came outside!

    My dog was sitting there the entire time drooling at the sausages and everything else!

    Have a good evening, hope your roast was nice!

     

    Lucy x

  • aah glad you’ve had a nice day. Glad the BBQ was nice too. My roast was actually not bad at all even if I donsay so myself :) 

     

    I sat out most of the day.. It was roasting wasn’t it .. ive even burnt my face a little lol it has cooled a lot now though. I think it’s going to be a little hotter tomorrow too! Are you in work Or off ? 

    Just  watched last nights Britain’s got talent with a glass of wine and now going to watch a series. 

    Hope you enjoy the rest of your night 

     

    Sarah xx

     

  • I am actually on Annual leave from work this week, I don't think the clinic will let me back though as because I work in the hospital in a "high risk" area I need to keep away I'm assuming because if they need to do anything I need to stay away from sources of infection.

    Glad the roast was nice! I'm watching some an old "Have I got news for you"!

    Have a good evening and enjoy your wine.

    Lucy xx

  • Yeah I was told Friday that I need to shield. The consultant said it’s not that the danger of getting covid it’s the fact that it could mess up plans for surgery or treatment.

    I’ve asked my boss if I can work from home. I’m a ward based medicines management technician and lots of people have been working from home lately due to covid. My boss has said she will talk to me about it next week So hopefully they will let me do something. 

     

    Wine went down very well but I was up early so I’m definitely flagging now.

     

    enjoy your night and hope you sleep well xx

  • I work in A&E so not a good place for any plans on surgery etc either! Yes I am started to get tired now, definately going to go to bed!

    Just don't want to wake up like I did this morning, realising everthing and having a big wobble!

    Hope you sleep well to.

     

     

     

  • Hi Lucy 

     

    don’t know what happened there I replied to your last message but just come on here to see how your feeling and it’s not there! Weird 

    How are you feeing? Hope your managing to sleep ok and make the most of this sun 

     

    Sarah xx 

  • Hi Sarah,

    Oh, no i didn't see any other posts 

    I didn't sleep to bad thanks, how about yourself?

    Yes I have been sitting in the garden a lot pondering over things as you do. I daren't sit in the sun, I burn lol.!

    Hope you are managing sleep ok?

    Lucy xx