Husband has dementia and just found out I have breast cancer

Hi.

My husband has dementia. I am his sole carer. 

I have just been told I have breast cancer. I am rather lonely.

How do I cope with both?

I have talked to some people but they can only offer limited help. Really they are scared of the dementia.

Is there any help out there? 

  • Hi Gitty I'm not quite the same as you. Specialist not sure if my wife has Alzheimers or brain disease, been waiting over a year still not sure. I've got uncurable cancer having palliative care  Diagnosed Feb 2016, got carer's in to look after my disabled wife now and again rest i manage. Can your husband still move about OK or does he need help. Best wishes.                 Billy