On 20th December I took my Dad to hospital as thought he’d had a mini stroke (face droop and slurring). After doing CT scan they took me to one side to say they’d found a massive tumour in his brain that they believed to be secondary. He spent a few days in hospital on steroids and has now come home. It’s come as a complete shock. He’s 80 but fit and healthy. They still can’t find the primary but as yet have had no further appointments and not sure what we are actually dealing with?I don’t know what I’m really asking on here but I guess I am really struggling. Only child and my mum died when I was little so it’s only ever been me and my dad and I’m just hating all the uncertainty and waiting. I just feel so helpless and out of control with it all

Rachel