Hello there, firstly what a relief to have this picked up...phew....

my lumpectomy was straight forward....I was told all the way along it was highly unlikely I would need chemo ( I was her2 pos) then...I needed chemo ( as a flush) 

hang fire until you know for definite....I also had 23 sessions of rads, I was completely exhausted but of course I had the effects of chemo still in my body...

do you have node involvement? I'm keeping everything crossed for you...let us know how you get on? X

Hi Marlyn,

Thanks for the advice.

Do you mind me asking what her2 pos is? Is that that a hormonal type of cancer?

Think I will put the wedding off. Dont think I would be able to focus on organising it anyway.

Not sure about node involvement?? I have to get an MRI but dont have date yet.

I presume all your treatment was successful. Do you mind me asking how long it all took.?

Sorry for all the questions and thank you x

Yes, it's oestrogen driven, I had no node involvement but my onco said he couldn't guarantee a stray cell....hence the chemo flush...from the lumpectomy to end of rads it took around 6 months, I'm still going every 3 weeks for herceptin.....

im still left with fatigue but I suppose that's to be expected....

i think you're very wise to postpone the wedding for now, concentrate on the surgery for now and deal with things as and if they pop up...

oh yes, and all good with me, although I'll know for sure at my first mammogram in January....eek! Xxx

I suppose better to be safe than sorry with the chemo. That is a long time. My surgeon said he hopes (MRI result dependent so could wll change) that I am through everything before Christmas. I work full time, although haven't gone in today and plan to log in tomorrow from home. Work very accommodating with me which is good. Do you work? Were you able to keep working?

What is herceptin? Sorry all very new terms to me.

Praying your mammogram ok in January. Ask for ultrasound too as apparently mine was so small  6mm it didnt show up on mammogram.

Hi glasgowgal. I was diagnosed in February , Tumor was er positive but her2 negative. Had a lumpectomy in March with 1 lymph node removed then a 3 week wait for results. Luckily no node involvement , mass was 4.2cm but because of my age (46) it was sent for an oncotype dx test so another 2 weeks waiting on those results. Luckily didn’t need chemo so just 15 sessions of radiotherapy and 5 years on tamoxifen. I had 3 weeks off after surgery but was up and about the day after. Worked through radiotherapy but did short days. My work are really supportive so that helped. Total treatment time was just over 3 months. I have 2 kids aged 14 and 8 so wanted as much normality as possible for them. The waiting is the worst time but once you know your plan it becomes easier. Happy to answer any questions. Sending big hugs. Nicky xxx

I worked throughout, I'm the warden of a small residential home for the elderly, it wasn't demanding, I was ok....

herceptin is a targeted therapy for her2 pos , it helps mop up oestrogen as we need to get rid of that wee hormone! 

Yrs, I get the ultrasound too as I have dense breast tissue....let me know how you get on? Xxx

Hi Nicky 453,

Thanks for the advice. Your lump sounds big. Mine is only 6mm. Not sure about positive or negative chat. All very new to me. Just remember him saying estrogen receptive and hope to have all treatment done by Christmas, depending on MRI results. Sounds very similar to your timescale.

I am actually same age as you, kids 13 and 10. Work very supportive so hoping to work as much as I can to keep things normal.

Yes waiting is the hardest part. Once I have MRI and  know full treatment plan I will feel better. 

Good to hear a sucess story x

Hi I couldn’t feel the lump but he did say 2cm on mammogram but was larger when they did the surgery which is not uncommon . Hopefully you will just have lumpectomy, I didn’t even tell my 14 year old until after surgery so I could say I had a lump but now it’s gone. Didn’t tell my 8 yr old anything as I was up and about the next day so he wouldn’t understand. When is your scan? Let us know how you get on , sending positive hugs xxx

Wow that is a big difference in size. Didn't  know it could change like that, but all new to me just now.

I haven't told kids just yet. Daughter goes to Disneyland Paris with her Girl Guides tomorrow, so didn't want to spoil it for her. Will see how it goes with MRI. Nurse calling me tomorrow to tell me if it will be this Monday or next then get result and full plan 2 days later. Apparently everything will move quite quickly xx