Hello, feels strange not sure where to start. Friend of over 40yrs just been diagnosed with secondary bone cancer? Started with breast cancer. How do you start to understand how or why this happens. My friend and husband i feel are in denial, how do you approach the subject without feeling interfering.,She has had lots of issues trying to get to a stage where she can start chemo, blood count all over the shop, high temperature, infection... after 8 weeks only just managed 2 bouts of chemo. She wont open up to talk about her plan, how can i help, i feel helpless.