Hello I’m absolutely heartbroken my mum has just been given only a few weeks to live. She was diagnosed with bladder cancer after going to the doctors with what she thought was a urine infection. My mum went back to the hospital to see the consultant at the end of December and they told her that they would remove her bladder and give her a stoma the bladder cancer was confined to the bladder and had not spread. Only the doctors missed missed a tumour in her bowel as the assumed it was a lymph node that was on her first ct scan. They couldn’t understand why she wasn’t getting any better after her op. Anyway to cut a long story short they missed the fact it had spread to her bowel, pelvis, bones, and intestines and called a meeting with the family to say that mum only had maybe a few weeks left and there was nothing else they could do and put her on palliative care.