Hi Macker,

So sorry to read about your Dad. What does he suggest you should do? If he has other family or friends with him you could ask them too.

You will probably feel better if you fly out, but you are bound to have other commitments, especially if you have a family of your own. Never an easy choice.

Best wishes
Dave

Hi Dave

Thanks for your reply, I was over in Cyprus in September and dad was clear in that I had my own life back in the UK, so was happy for me to go home.  However, as things have changed I am thinkin I need to head out again, as dad was also the main carer for mum, as she has low level dementia. 

My brother is out in Cyprus at the min, but its a full time job looking after both paretns at the same time.

My head is a mess, not knowing what to do for the best.