Hi All, I am new to the forum and looking for help and support. My wife has recently been diagnosed with cancer primary source unknown (suspected lower bowel). There are 4 sites of secondary tumouring (ovary, peritoneum, omentum and something on the bowel). These were identified after a laporoscopy. The histology indicated signet ring cells so passed from gynae team to upper GI and now following gastroscopy we are being passed to lower GI team. My wife, Helen, is due to start chemotherapy next friday and they are also trying to fit in a colonoscopy prior to the chemo starting. We have a 5 year old (soon to be 6) son who just knows mummy has a porly tummy and he is due back from family holiday (we were due away but stayed at home ot try and get this process moving forward / started) and we are going to have to plan and have those awful conversations when he is back. These last few weeks have been so awful being pased from one team who we have built a rapport with and now feeling like we are just being shuttled around. We have really found out who our friends really are (or not unfortunately). Struggling to cope at times with the enormity of all of this and what to do and where to start so any help is genuinely appreciated.
