Ocular Melanoma

Hi I have very recently (3 weeks ago) been diagnosed with Ocular Melanoma in my left eye.  The tumour was too large to treat and I therefore had enucleation (removal) of the eye last Wednesday at Moorfields eye hospital in London.  I have found the support group Ocumel UK who have been great - however, being a rare cancer thereare not too many members - and they are spread far and wide.  I am struggling with having no one to talk to about 'what next' I am waiting for the results from the biopsy and genetic make up of the tumour which will inform my long term prognosis.  I know I will be monitored for life, although the MRI and PET-CT scans taken last week are both thankfully clear.  Family seem to think that they treat the eye and you are 'fixed' - how do I explain this to them without coming across as negative and only focussing on the worst case scenario.  I am determined to fight this but I have so many feelings and emotions and no real outlet for them.  I woneqr if it is worth me joining a local,cancer support group or are these generally linked to a specific type of cancer? 

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  • Hi Noeyehere, 

    I noticed you were looking to connect with others that have had the same diagnosis or been in a similar situation so I just wanted to put you in touch with Rob50‍ and Lorrainew‍ as they've both posted on the forum about ocular melanoma in the last few months. You may like to chat to JIE_1985‍ as their dad also has this diagnosis.

    Although this discussion is from last year you may still find it useful to read this discussion on Ocular Eye melanoma where two of our members are chatting about their treatment and journey with this type of cancer so do feel free to join in so you can try and connect with them as well. 

    Joining a local cancer support group sounds like a great idea and you can find out more about how to do this on the Macmillan Cancer Support website.

    I hope this helps noeyehere and I'm really glad the scans taken last week came back clear :)

    Kind regards, 

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

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  • Hi Noeyehere, 

    I noticed you were looking to connect with others that have had the same diagnosis or been in a similar situation so I just wanted to put you in touch with Rob50‍ and Lorrainew‍ as they've both posted on the forum about ocular melanoma in the last few months. You may like to chat to JIE_1985‍ as their dad also has this diagnosis.

    Although this discussion is from last year you may still find it useful to read this discussion on Ocular Eye melanoma where two of our members are chatting about their treatment and journey with this type of cancer so do feel free to join in so you can try and connect with them as well. 

    Joining a local cancer support group sounds like a great idea and you can find out more about how to do this on the Macmillan Cancer Support website.

    I hope this helps noeyehere and I'm really glad the scans taken last week came back clear :)

    Kind regards, 

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

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