Recently diagnosed, waiting for planning ct scan so can move ahead with chemo/radiotherapy treatment. Saw the oncologist and he told us what the treatment plan would be plus the small print of issues that could be caused by what will hopefully save my life, such a long scary list. I am quite independent and find it difficult to ask for help but know having good friends and my family supporting me is going to be important so here I am just to reach out, for some reassurance at some points and advice as I go through this.have been told it is vaginal (not the easiest to say when anybody asks haha) but the tumour actually extends from the lip of the cervix and in to the vsginal wall, they won’t know until further down the line whether it started in the cervix or vagina. He let me see the mri scan and pointed out the tumour, was surprised so big (well in my eyes it was bigger than I thought would be). It’s only been 3 weeks since I found out and boy does it seem forever!