hi all, I just stumbled across this forum and have already found a lot of support from reading others stories. I found out this week that my dad has stomach cancer which has spread to his liver and possibly bones. He's 72 and has been told 6-12 months. I'm struggling so much with this as I'm very close to my dad. I have a newborn baby and live 5 hours away from my parents. I feel so conflicted as I just want to be near my dad and spend my time with him but for my baby and husbands sake need to go home. I'm so scared to do this in case my dad needs me or is sad. It upsets me so much as I can see how upset he feels when my son laughs that he's going to miss him growing up. It breaks my heart to see my dad going through this. I don't feel very strong and I'm worried I won't do the right thing by him or my baby xxxx