We found out yesterday that my mum has a rare form of bladder cancer and it has spread to 2 nodes so the surgeon is doing an operation to take out her bladder and about 20 nodes. This doesnt guarantee that the cancer won't spread. But he said that as it is so rare that this type doesnt respond well to chemo etc. Has anyone or know anyone had this type? Ive told my mum to ask nurse today the actual name of it so i can do some exploring on the internet in case it does come back after surgery. My head is all over the place and im pregnant with my mum and dads first grandchild. Im so overwhelmed, annoyed and upset that this is happening when my mum has a grandchild on the way and we know she wont see him or her grow up. Never thought id be going through this at 33. Need some advice xx