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Hi all, got a diagnosis in October for breast cancer. Have had a lumpectomy 2 weeks ago and lymph node removed, then had a 2nd op on Tuesday to increase the margins. Ended up back at hospital yesterday as as blood vessel had burst through . Back in bed now ( thank you for catch up tv) and back to the beginning of this recover part. Next appt with consultant is 21st then radiotherapy and tablets I  the New Year.  Haven't cried or got angry just frustrating at this op stage to not be able to do ....... hubby was fine with things at first but i don't think he realiases I have had 2 ops in 2 weeks and now he is very sharp with me and th3 kids.  So hi everyone

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    Hi,

    It is like a rollercoaster ride, emotions are everywhere for all the family.  I remember getting fustrated that I could not do things.  It must be difficult for you with three children!!  I took my husband with me to appointments to make sure he realised what was happening.  I think everyone wants to get back to normal, but do not realise this takes time.  I used to get really stroppy with my husband because he did not do things as I do them.  I did not find the radiotherapy too bad, but you do get quite tired.  

    Hope you feel better soon, I remember this difficult time, and having to adjust.  

    Take care and keep posting for support. 

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    Hi Rachied,

    I thought I would bump your post as  I know there will be some lovely people on our forum who will have been in a similar situation, and who will have some good advice for you I am sure.

    Do make sure you rest and enjoy the catch up TV! We wish you a speedy recovery from all your ops.

    Best wishes and welcome to our forum!

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator

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