Im so sorry for your situation. My story is a little different. I havent got a diagnose yet but i had a sudden change in bowel movements my wbc are high i have a crucial pain under left breast been to dr appts hospital they cant find whats wrong im loosing weight fast. And my husband refuses to face the fact im sick. We have 3 boys 17, 15, 4 so frustrated. Im 41 and hes 49. Im sorry for taking over your post. How are you doing? 

Hi and welcome but I am so sorry to see why you are here. To have a cancer diagnosis of any kind is traumatic enough but for you both to get such results within the space of a week must have been truly devastating, especially given that you have had to deal with your own treatment while still comforting and then grieving for your husband. I hope that other family members and friends have helped you to try and deal with all this and I am sure that others on here will be along shortly too. Take care of yourself.  Sue x