Hi , I am new to this forum ,my name is JIll , I am feeling a bit bewildered . My Hubby pete has been diagnosed with Bowel cancer , it's all a bit of a shock really as he is fit and well , He was 60 in January and in Feb a Bowel screening test came through the post box , as said fit and well and no probs , he duly did the test and sent it off , another test came and he sent this off . The next step came and he went for a colonoscopy , 3 polyps removed and they ok , one big one that he had to go back to have removed last week , in the last few days we have gone from nothing to cancer and now from the scan to cancer in the liver and lung . Appointment to. See a consultant on Tuesday , I am terrified , hubby is quite , we haven't told our family anything yet , how do we tell our family it's going to disrupt their life , sorry feeling so bewildered and shocked . Me and pete have been together for 34 years and we have worked hard to bring up 4 fab kids , this should be our time now , so also feeling angry , pete on the other hand is just taking it in his stride ,won't talk about it and doesn't want to tell anyone ., I think we are both scared but trying to be brave x
