I am sorry to hear that you are terrified of what happens post-surgery. No two cancers are the same and treatment can vary due to a lot of different factors such as the type and stage of breast cancer, patient's age, health conditions. Some cancers are more aggressive than others and these need different treatment than a less aggressive type. Has your consultant discussed what treatment you are likely to have - chemotherapy, radiotherapy or hormone therapy?
You are right not to worry about surgery. I have had a lumpectomy and a double mastectomy. The after effects of these operations surprised me. I was actually more comfortable after the double mastectomies than I was after the lumpectomy. Place your faith in your care team. They do this day and daily and know what they're doing. I am glad to see that you don't have much longer to wait and I sincerely hope that it all goes well.
Please keep in touch and let us know how you get on. We are always here for you.
Thank you so much for your reassuring message Jolamine. I don't know what treatment I will have after my mastectomy.
I have invasive lobular cancer grade 2 - it may be 8cms but not 100% sure mri shows 8cms but scan/biopsy said 4cms - that is why I insisted on mastectomy rather than lumpectomy. I feel that is best option for me.
