Saliva gland diagnosis

I have just been diagnosed with Cancer of the salivary gland that has spread to a nearby lymph node.  I am 51 and fit for my age, so this is a huge shock.  I now need more tests to determine the actual cancer, the treatment plan, and long-term hopes.

So many questions, but I will have to wait for more results to answer most of them.  What do you do in the meantime when you feel fit and healthy?  Should i just go about my life as if nothing has changed and just deal with it when i know more?  Don't want to curl up and feel sorry for myself as this would only make it worse for me...but I'm all ears for other people's experience and how they coped.  

Also, if anyone has had a similar cancer in their lives i would love to hear from you.

Thank you

J

  • Hi JGW74, 

    I can imagine it was a shock for you to be diagnosed with salivary gland cancer and it must be a bit of a period of uncertainty for you at the moment as you are waiting to have more tests to find out more about the treatment plan. We have useful information on our website on the types of salivary gland cancers as well as on the different treatment options. I hope that you will get some answers soon when you have your results and this time of waiting is really the hardest and it can be hard to know what to do. The best thing to do during this anxious time is to keep well away from the temptation to look things up online and to carry on with your life as you would normally do, keeping distracted and carrying on doing all the activities you enjoy. Have a look at our helpful tips on how to cope while waiting for news which I hope will help you deal with this time when you might feel a little bit in limbo. 

    It won't be long now though until you get your full test results and I am keeping everything crossed for you that you get more clarity soon and that the treatment will go well.

    I also hope that you will hear from other members of our community who have had a similar diagnosis before and that they will pop by shortly to share their experience with you.

    We also have a nurse helpline you are welcome to ring on this free number 0808 800 4040 - it is open Monday to Friday from 9am to 5pm so don't hesitate to give them a call if there is anything you would like to discuss or ask them. 

    I will now let others come and say hello and share their story with you and wish you the very best of luck for the next steps for diagnosis and treatment.

    Best wishes, 

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator