Health issues including cancer taking over my life

Hi lovely people. I had 2 bladder tumours removed all good but now have nodules in my lungs that have grown x a mass on my liver. Having a scan of my lungs again in may but having to chase my liver ultrasound. I have compressed nerves in my neck that have been causing me severe pain for 13 weeks now. I’m still on the waiting list even though it’s an urgent appointment. Has anyone else had these experiences xx