BrightonViv - recently diagnosed with pancreatic cancer (NETs)

I was recently diagnosed with multi -focal pancreatic cancer NET;  non functional. I think that’s medical speak for tumours all over the pancreas;  at present they have not metastasised so they are stable.

Incredibly,  I was offered and strongly declined a total pancreatectomy ie removal of the entire pancreas. I have opted for quality of life rather than lengthy and debilitating old age. I am aged 78 and until this diagnosis have been slim, fit and active.

Current symptoms are mainly fatigue and bloating which are very unpleasant . I have not yet managed to adapt to  eating only small amounts of food several times a day. I think when I do manage this I feel better. The fatigue is much more difficult because it overwhelms me.  I have lost my interest in food;  I have always eaten healthy foods. I am not losing weight.

I have had five scans and an endoscopy. I sometimes take paracetamol.

  • Hi BrightonViv and welcome to the forum.

    I’m sorry to hear about your diagnosis.

    It sounds as though you’ve had a great deal to take in, and it’s clear you’ve thought carefully about your options.

    Choosing to focus on quality of life is very understandable, especially when you’ve been fit, active and independent until now.

    The fatigue you describe can be particularly hard to live with, as it can feel overwhelming and unpredictable. Hopefully other Cancer Chat members will come by with advice on how to help manage how you’re feeling but until then you might want to have a look at our website on this page with information on coping with cancer-related fatigue, which includes practical ideas that some people find useful and that is also a bit about. changes around eating and bloating that might help.

    If at any point you feel it would help to talk things through, our lovely team of nurses is available on 0808 800 4040, Monday to Friday, 9am to 5pm.

    I hope you’ll continue to share how you’re getting on. There’s always someone here to listen.

    All the best,

    Renata, Cancer Chat Moderator