- I have myeloma and a stem cell transplant in January 2024. I am having ongoing chemotherapy. I have two children that do not contact me a wife who.herself is not well and the only family I have is a neice with cancer herself and no real friends. I get so down in the dumps and do my best to be positive .I suppose being lonely also. I am not one to share feelings as I keep myself to myself for the last 40 years.