Crikey Lisajan - this is hard to answer! 

I’ve been closely involved in three family cancer cases, including my own.
Everyone did their best, but there’ll always be different viewpoints, especially between family members located in different parts of the country, or even the World.
After fighting two types of cancer for three years, my Mam decided not to enter yet another regime of debilitating chemo. Those of us who were directly involved in her care agreed with her choice. Those who weren’t struggled to accept this. 

None of us are perfect, we all hope we’d do the right thing, but we can never be 100% sure what we’ll do. 

I hope you receive the support you need


Best wishes
Dave

Thanks Dave. Sorry to hear about your mum and your cancer it's a debilitating disease physically and mentally. I do have therapy which really helps. And I have a few friends that I can talk to but because they haven't been through it I'm nit sure they understand. How are you doing 

Thanks Dave. Sorry to hear about your mum and your cancer it's a debilitating disease physically and mentally. I do have therapy which really helps. And I have a few friends that I can talk to but because they haven't been through it I'm nit sure they understand. How are you doing