Hi Alan,

I’ve been there and it really stinks. The way I received my own diagnosis was a good example of how not to do it. 
Forget Dr Google, the Internet is full of conspiracy theories and outdated data.
An awkward question - did they use the word “terminal” or did they say “incurable” or “inoperable”? I only ask because these often get confused and conflated.

Best wishes 

Dave

They used the dreaded word, terminal, im 6 ft, 16 stone, she said you don’t look ill though, apparently it’s spread to my spine and lymph nodes, the bizzare thing is, I don’t feel ill, I’m determine and obstinate, that’s my wife’s opinion not mine, I’ll see what happens tomorrow with the oncologist, it’s out of my circle of control now, so waiting to be advised by others, 

Good luck for tomorrow. 
Determned and obstinate sounds like a requirement. 

Good luck for tomorrow. 
Determned and obstinate sounds like a requirement. 

Tx davek, all the best to you mate