Surviving with guilt

Hi, I'm almost 5 years post treatment and thankfully still in remission. 

I know it's silly but survivor's guilt eats me up, I have so many questions, and every time someone passes from cancer I have nightmares... Have seen the gp, went to a local councillor but still can't make it go away, any good suggestions will be gratefully received.

Thanks in advance

A survivor whose struggling 

Parents
  • HI,

    I too am a survivor of cancer, twice. Initially diagnosed Stage 1 27 years ago and then Stage 3 14 years ago. I've never felt survivor guilt but I know it's a normal way to feel for some so don't think it's silly. 

    I'm sure you have been lots of advice from your GP & counsellor but have you thought of using your experience of cancer to help support others going through the same? See if there is a support group that you can help with, either in person or online - this forum is a great place to start. There are lots of groups out there that need success stories from survivors as it helps those at the start of their journey to have hope. In helping others you may find it helps you deal with your feelings.

    Good luck

    Angie, Stage 3 melanoma patient since 2009

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  • HI,

    I too am a survivor of cancer, twice. Initially diagnosed Stage 1 27 years ago and then Stage 3 14 years ago. I've never felt survivor guilt but I know it's a normal way to feel for some so don't think it's silly. 

    I'm sure you have been lots of advice from your GP & counsellor but have you thought of using your experience of cancer to help support others going through the same? See if there is a support group that you can help with, either in person or online - this forum is a great place to start. There are lots of groups out there that need success stories from survivors as it helps those at the start of their journey to have hope. In helping others you may find it helps you deal with your feelings.

    Good luck

    Angie, Stage 3 melanoma patient since 2009

Children
  • Hi 

    Thank you for the reply, yes have spoken to the gp and had minimal counselling and just felt like I'm left to get on with things. I had my cousin help me with my journey so maybe me helping someone else is a great idea! I'll need to look out for an online group who might use my input.

    Good luck

    Wendy, stage 3 endometrial survivor since 2019