A warm welcome to our forum, Bellally.

I'm sorry to hear about your mum's situation. It's understandably distressing, especially when support seems to be lacking... if the palliative care team hasn't reached out, it might be a good idea to consider proactively contacting them again, emphasising the urgency.

While your dedication is commendable, please remember to take moments for self care. With this in mind I want to share a page from our website that is dedicated to family, friends and caregives of those who are affected by cancer and I hope this can help a little.

Hopefully other forum members who have gone through a similar experience recently with their loved ones will come along to share their stories with you and offer advice. Until then, if you think that asking questions to someone with a medical background might help, our team of nurses can be reached on this number 0808 800 4040 Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m.

Wishing you and your mum all the best,

Renata, Cancer Chat Moderator

Thank you renata doctor rang I explained she can't swallow her antibiotics for her urine infection so she's giving liquid form told her no bowel movements at all and she's not eating my doctor said as long as your mum is comfortable  and no pain she said it could be the infection making her feel not good I've ordered fortisip online for her then mum said to me she probably hasn't got long I said why did you say that she said nothing working it upset me but thanks ever so much for getting back