Hi, I guess?

Well, I wish that I didn't have any need for this forum, but then again, I'm pretty sure everyone here feels the same.

My 68 year old Mum has recently be diagnosed with Stage 3 Tubular/Ovarian cancer and is set to begin her Chemotherapy next week. I'm currently living with her and will be her carer throughout the process.

The Oncologist is optimistic that after a few rounds of treatment, that she will be able to have the debulking surgery, and thankfully it has not reached her lymph nodes but has spread somewhat to her abdomen, causing ascites. 
Bricking it to the extreme, and have next to no support network here. Entire family is spread across the country, Mum is a bit of a recluse and I have no friends here either. 

So I figured that instead of screaming into the void, I'd do it here where someone will likely scream something useful back.





  • Hello 90sVintage

    I'm sorry to hear about your Mum's diagnosis and the circumstances that you find yourselves in. Undoubtedly this is a difficult time for you both and I'm glad that you've reached out for some support. 

    Caring for a loved one going through treatment can be both rewarding and difficult so whilst you may not have a lot of practical day-to-day support, don't be afraid to reach out to the Cancer Chat community here or talk with your Mum's care team if you have any concerns over the coming weeks and months. We have some information on our website here about the importance of caring for the carer. 

    We also have a team of nurses that you can call for advice and support if you think it would be helpful at any point. They're available Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm on 0808 800 4040. 

    I hope that your Mum's first chemo treatment goes smoothly next week. Keep in touch and let us know how you're both doing. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator