Hi there, 

I had weekly chemo (paclitaxel) at the start of the year, and I did find it quite tiring (although I didn't really have any other symptoms with it, so that felt like a win!). I also live on my own, although my partner was here every weekend, and it was things like cleaning, ironing, gardening and changing the bedding that I really struggled with, so my advice would be to try and help with those things if you can. 

I know a lot is said about ready meals, but I managed to find some that were as healthy as possible and included some veg portions, as standing to cook was also just a bit too much. 

I'm also very independent and accepting/asking for help wasn't something I am used to or like doing, but it honestly made the world of difference. Needing support whilst going through something like this isn't something to feel ashamed of. If you get worried, it might be worth speaking to the nurses to see if they can have a conversation around accepting help, so it isn't coming from you?

I hope that helps, and that your mum doesn't have too many side effects. Please also make sure you have the support you need at the moment too :) xx

Hi there, 

I had weekly chemo (paclitaxel) at the start of the year, and I did find it quite tiring (although I didn't really have any other symptoms with it, so that felt like a win!). I also live on my own, although my partner was here every weekend, and it was things like cleaning, ironing, gardening and changing the bedding that I really struggled with, so my advice would be to try and help with those things if you can. 

I know a lot is said about ready meals, but I managed to find some that were as healthy as possible and included some veg portions, as standing to cook was also just a bit too much. 

I'm also very independent and accepting/asking for help wasn't something I am used to or like doing, but it honestly made the world of difference. Needing support whilst going through something like this isn't something to feel ashamed of. If you get worried, it might be worth speaking to the nurses to see if they can have a conversation around accepting help, so it isn't coming from you?

I hope that helps, and that your mum doesn't have too many side effects. Please also make sure you have the support you need at the moment too :) xx

Amy,

Thank you. This has reassured me a lot. I hadn't thought about the day to day chores. She still seems fairly upbeat about the whole process but as we haven't started the treatment yet its fear of the unknown. I've started with the things we need soonest. She has an appointment for a wig tomorrow as she says she won't be seen without hair outdoors! 

We've been considering a personal alarm and she thinks this is a good idea. The consultant was insinuating in his telephone consult that she may be very weak and prone to falls. I'm not sure whether that was said as worst case scenario.  

As I said we will be governed by her. As for me, my husband is very supportive for us both bless him.

Anyway, importantly, how are you? Have you finished chemo? I hope things are going well for you xx