Hi Haris,

I really feel for you and your family having to go through this, it is hard to see your sister suffer like this and especially at times when you were so far away from her, you must have felt so helpless.

My sister was diagnosed with cancer, she was 41 at that time with a 4 year old son.  He also grew up watching his mum having treatment and feeling ill.  She was older than me by 2 years and always tried to protect me, I was her little sister regardless of how old I was.  She sadly died after 3 years of battle, my nephew was then 7 years old.  She lived 6000 miles away from me at the time which was hard as I felt so helpless, but I did manage to get to see her a few times in that time and I was there when she passed away.

You never get over losing your sister, but you do find a way to cope with it.  I spent a few years very bitter and angry, but I now like to think of it that I was lucky to have someone that strong and caring as my sister for 41 years, some people can spend a lifetime with a sibling and never have that bond.

I was blessed to have her.

My nephew coped, he has a fantastic dad that is devoted to him and 13 years later, he has grown into a confident and caring young man.

Take care and try to remember the good times with your sister, it will help you cope.  I am here if you need a chat.

Marie

hi marie its really apriciating to hear from you and i felt light i am so sorry to hear about your beloved sister who where in pain and you where also in pain an als also about your nephew who cops to see his mom going thourgh bad deease may God rewards him for bearing his mom,s pain and stress..i am sorry to did a mistake that my sister was died in april 2023 not in 13 .and yes i am here also for you and would like to be in touch with you and we may share our words and things to each other so ppl feel lightly after sharing their stress or happinesses .i would love to know more about you how your life going now family marital life if you are marrierde and other things in what country you from and more if you want to tell or share with me.

Regards,

Haris

Hi Haris

Oh I am so sorry that you only lost your sister in April of this year, it must still feel so raw for you. It takes a long time, but I promise you it does get easier with time. You can remember the good times you had with your sister, before the illness took over. Are you close to your niece that is 13 years old? That is such a hard age to lose your mum! I am sure she will.need someone to talk to about it. Once they knew that my sister was going to die, my brother-in-law and nephew had grief counselling, they continued that for a couple of years afterwards, it helped them both a lot.

I live in the Uk too, I have sent you a friend request, if you accept that, we can private message each other, which is better than putting too many private details on a public forum.
Best wishes
Marie

Hi Haris

Oh I am so sorry that you only lost your sister in April of this year, it must still feel so raw for you. It takes a long time, but I promise you it does get easier with time. You can remember the good times you had with your sister, before the illness took over. Are you close to your niece that is 13 years old? That is such a hard age to lose your mum! I am sure she will.need someone to talk to about it. Once they knew that my sister was going to die, my brother-in-law and nephew had grief counselling, they continued that for a couple of years afterwards, it helped them both a lot.

I live in the Uk too, I have sent you a friend request, if you accept that, we can private message each other, which is better than putting too many private details on a public forum.
Best wishes
Marie

aw is this a puclic forum actly i am new i dont knw how to exectly in private i thougt we are talking in private but i ve already accepted your request plz check it an send me a private msg to i tell you more detail and reply of your this msg thanx ....reply me soon if you online i am waiting