Can't sleep have mastectomy opp today xx

I just can't sleep, I'm feeling positive about the outcome of having the surgery,I'm very worried about when I get home to my 5 beautiful children,I have very little support, and so worried about my recovery and not being able to do what mum's do, which is everything! I'm hoping my older children will understand and start helping out a little more!! It's the unknown of what is ahead, I have no idea, hope everyone is as well as they can be, Lindsay xx

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  • Hi Lindsay,

    Hope you're doing ok after your operation. I 'went under' at around 9am and woke up at about 3pm (on the same day, of course :happy:. I was visited by the surgeon later that day, who told me that he had got it all out - I was a stage IIa, N0, M0, which apparently means that there was nothing in the nodes (N0) and no metastases (M0). Quite a lot of my colon was removed, though, so I have to watch the portion sizes, now!

    I was out of hospital after a 4 nights stay in Oct. 2021 and convalesced at home for two weeks. Watched every single episode of Wallender again, as well as the Sherlock Holmes series with Jereny Brett - sad, I know :happy:! Then I went back to work. Started chemo as a precaution in Dec. 2021 and finished the course in May 2022. 

    I try to stay positive, as there is no point in being anything else! There are regular scans and blood tests, so that they can keep an eye on you. I wouldn't want it any other way, even though it can make you nervous going for the first few, you get used to it. I view myself as a 'cancer survivor', now.

    Two good bits of best advice I have had since I started on this so called 'jourmey'. 'Don't use the internet', to  search for info about the cancer. The tendency to focus only on the bad stuff is not a good idea, so avoid it altogether. And 'Be Kind To Yourself'.  If possible :happy:

    Best wishes,

    Davex 

     

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  • Hi Lindsay,

    Hope you're doing ok after your operation. I 'went under' at around 9am and woke up at about 3pm (on the same day, of course :happy:. I was visited by the surgeon later that day, who told me that he had got it all out - I was a stage IIa, N0, M0, which apparently means that there was nothing in the nodes (N0) and no metastases (M0). Quite a lot of my colon was removed, though, so I have to watch the portion sizes, now!

    I was out of hospital after a 4 nights stay in Oct. 2021 and convalesced at home for two weeks. Watched every single episode of Wallender again, as well as the Sherlock Holmes series with Jereny Brett - sad, I know :happy:! Then I went back to work. Started chemo as a precaution in Dec. 2021 and finished the course in May 2022. 

    I try to stay positive, as there is no point in being anything else! There are regular scans and blood tests, so that they can keep an eye on you. I wouldn't want it any other way, even though it can make you nervous going for the first few, you get used to it. I view myself as a 'cancer survivor', now.

    Two good bits of best advice I have had since I started on this so called 'jourmey'. 'Don't use the internet', to  search for info about the cancer. The tendency to focus only on the bad stuff is not a good idea, so avoid it altogether. And 'Be Kind To Yourself'.  If possible :happy:

    Best wishes,

    Davex 

     

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