Dad dying with cancer: feel in emotional limbo land

Hi, my dad was admitted into hospital on 12th incredibly poorly, we've been called to say goodbye many times. Tuesday dad was so cold, sleeping and not eating much or talking much, we knew it was time but by Thursday he was so alert (still confused) but talking almost normally and drinking protein shakes and even getting up (much to the nurses frustration as hes not steady) yesterday he was the same and now the hospital are saying he can move to a hospice as he seems better?! That's fine with us but I hate being in this emotional limbo land 

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  • Hi I'm so sorry to hear about this, I am in a similar situation hating limbo land all the uncertainty is so so exhausting beyond belief. My dad also has small cell lung cancer. He also has brain mets and is in his hospital bed at home with carers and we got told he has weeks left.. he eats a little bit each day and sleeps most of the time but has alert times where he is more chatty. I'm afraid we have to take this day by day don't we, it's the most frustrating thing- don't know about you but I love to make plans and have some certainty in life! I rushed to visit him 4 hours away on Tuesday after being told it was nearly the end, yet 6 days later he's hanging on in there not having changed much since Tuesday! It's all so confusing all I can do is send you my best wishes and hope we find peace in this awful situation.

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  • Hi I'm so sorry to hear about this, I am in a similar situation hating limbo land all the uncertainty is so so exhausting beyond belief. My dad also has small cell lung cancer. He also has brain mets and is in his hospital bed at home with carers and we got told he has weeks left.. he eats a little bit each day and sleeps most of the time but has alert times where he is more chatty. I'm afraid we have to take this day by day don't we, it's the most frustrating thing- don't know about you but I love to make plans and have some certainty in life! I rushed to visit him 4 hours away on Tuesday after being told it was nearly the end, yet 6 days later he's hanging on in there not having changed much since Tuesday! It's all so confusing all I can do is send you my best wishes and hope we find peace in this awful situation.

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