End of life

My mum was given weeks left to live in January but she is still here fighting. She really deteriorated though and it's breaking my heart. 
Mum also says she doesn't want to be here any more. 
 

She is asleep for most of the day - maybe awake for 2 hours. She is eating small amounts and still passing urine. When she does speak she doesn't open her eyes. She isn't in any pain which I'm so grateful for. 
 

I know everyone is different but how long can this stage last. I'm not wishing her away but she suffered enough. 
 

I'm so scared 

 

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  • Hi Lisa9929,

    Welcome to Cancer Chat. I'm so sorry to hear of your situation - I can only imagine how difficult this must be.

    I would encourage you to speak to her doctor/specialist when you can, particularly if you have questions about what to expect.

    If you feel you'd like to talk things through with one of our nurses, you can reach them on 0808 800 4040 - Monday-Friday, 9-5 (excluding holidays).

    Do also use this forum as much as is helpful for any support or simply to write things down.

    Wishing you all the best,

    Ben
    Cancer Chat Moderator

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  • Hi Lisa9929,

    Welcome to Cancer Chat. I'm so sorry to hear of your situation - I can only imagine how difficult this must be.

    I would encourage you to speak to her doctor/specialist when you can, particularly if you have questions about what to expect.

    If you feel you'd like to talk things through with one of our nurses, you can reach them on 0808 800 4040 - Monday-Friday, 9-5 (excluding holidays).

    Do also use this forum as much as is helpful for any support or simply to write things down.

    Wishing you all the best,

    Ben
    Cancer Chat Moderator

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