Hi there ...

So so sorry your going through this heartbraking time at the moment... it must be heartbraking... maybe give Marie Currie a ring... go on their home page and get their phone number ... they are there for that reason to help your dad, and those effected by it ... 

Unfortunately there's no hard and fast rules , although I'm not qualified in cancer, just things I learned along the way ... they are very rough about time and how long someone has as some live a lot longer and some a lot shorter ... but talk to Marie Currie... write down your questions so you don't forget ... 

It's one of the hardest things we ever do in life ... I'd say take each day as it comes... use the time to listen to each other ... leave nothing unsaid... ask him about his life , bet there's lots you don't know... 

Sending a vertual hug.... Chrissie x